Well i've had a few days to think about surgery now and I think oct 5th just makes more sense for a lot of reasons. There are still a lot of things we need to do and prep work for surgery plus our anniversary is the end of the month and I would hate to miss that.
I just dont think the 21st gives us enough time to make sure we have everything in place. Last thing you want to do whem facing surgery is rush, you know?
So I think I'm going to tell the nurse we are go for the 5th instead.